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Ý định trả thù: Tác động của nó đối với hạnh phúc chủ quan của sinh viên Việt Nam và vai trò của sự tha thứ và tự kiểm soát


Tác giả - Nơi làm việc:
Hồ Trịnh Thảo Nguyên - Trường Đại học Mở Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh, Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh , Việt Nam
Mai Thúy Mỹ - Trường Đại học Mở Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh, Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh , Việt Nam
Nguyễn Thị Xuyến - Trường Đại học Mở Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh, Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh , Việt Nam
Nguyễn Thúy Lan Anh - Trường Đại học Mở Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh, Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh , Việt Nam
Pham Minh - Trường Đại học Mở Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh, Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh , Việt Nam
Tác giả liên hệ, Email: Pham Minh - minh.p@ou.edu.vn
Ngày nộp: 16-07-2024
Ngày duyệt đăng: 11-10-2024
Ngày xuất bản: 18-10-2024

Tóm tắt
Tâm lý học giáo dục đối với sinh viên tại các trường đại học nhận sự quan tâm đặc biệt từ xã hội và các nhà nghiên cứu. Khi các mối quan hệ đời sống sinh viên ngày càng phức tạp, nhiều yếu tố tiêu cực hình thành khiến sinh viên nảy sinh ý định trả thù và ảnh hưởng đến hạnh phúc chủ quan của họ. Vì vậy nghiên cứu này nhằm mục đích khám phá mối quan hệ của ý định trả thù của sinh viên đối với hạnh phúc chủ quan và yếu tố trung gian, yếu tố điều tiết nhằm gia tăng hạnh phúc chủ quan. Nghiên cứu định lượng được áp dụng nhằm kiểm định các giả thuyết nghiên cứu thông qua phương pháp PLS-SEM, dữ liệu xử lí được thu thập được từ 767 sinh viên đã và đang theo học tại các trường đại học thuộc khu vực Thành phố Hồ Chí Minh. Kết quả cho thấy rằng ý định trả thù có tác động tiêu cực mạnh mẽ đến hạnh phúc chủ quan của sinh viên tuy nhiên có giảm đáng kể khi sự tha thứ đóng vai trò trung gian hòa giải. Hơn thế nữa, phát hiện mới từ yếu tố tự kiểm soát đã góp phần điều chỉnh đáng kể các mối quan hệ tâm lý, nhờ đó đóng góp thêm cơ sở nền tảng mới cho hệ thống lý thuyết trước đó và đề xuất cho tương lai, nhằm cải thiện đời sống tinh thần cho sinh viên.

Từ khóa
hạnh phúc chủ quan; sinh viên Việt Nam; sự tha thứ; tự kiểm soát; ý định trả thù

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